As a mentor to many of my friends that have left the military after me as well as young people I work with in my side gigs….I try and steer them between idealism and our cruel world especially in the area of being a great employee without being abused.

When is setting boundaries seen as not being a team player?

Or a better question: Why is trying to have boundaries seen as not being a team player? Is there a way to have boundaries and still be seen as not a distraction?

Is being on call 24/7 just the nature of the beast that people working for others have to expect if you want a good paying job?

Does part time mean part time commitment? When did three 8 hour shifts turn into a full time job that pays less than 2000 a month?

A mentor once told me its not like juggling its more like keeping the plates spinning. you have to watch over a lot of things and add your strengths and time to those in need…..Of course, some need more time than others and some are worth the extra time. That is where decisions have to be made.

Just some conversations I have had with young folks lately…

Any sage insights would be appreciated to help my people.

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